Even more problems

I am sorry to polute this forum more with whats going wrong in my life but It seams two other friends aren't speaking to me now.

The reason is this, At a party of mine my boyfriend got very drunk and was threatened with an Axe and so he wresteled it off the girl and came up to my room with it where I was sleeping. Later I awoke and tried to get him out cause I was pissed off with him. I came downstairs and asked people to help me get him out. They said, once youv'e got the axe of off him. At this point I didn't know he had an axe. He came downstairs and was really angery and then left. We were all pretty scared and shaken. But that was kinda that.

He sent me an email ending it cause he had done too much wrong. I said no I'd rather enjoy myself with you than feel crap with out you. So we stayed together.

Apparently by doing so I've put my friends in danger.

Heres a snippet of conversation between me and one of these girls.

Quote :

'Make the girls want hate and the guys wanna stare....... (nah)(D) (um)(R) (li) (um)(st) says (17:25):
yeah well to be honest , while your still going out with craig im not that comftable hanging out
Syntheticdarkness- Whitby Goth here I come! The Amy she knits! says (17:25):
Why, even when he isn't there
'Make the girls want hate and the guys wanna stare....... (nah)(D) (um)(R) (li) (um)(st) says (17:26):
yeah , i would never tell you how to live your life or what to do , but i think its pretty much outrages your going out with him still after all that you said and all that's happened
Syntheticdarkness- Whitby Goth here I come! The Amy she knits! says (17:29):
I miss hanging out with you alot and you are fabbity fab It saddens me to hear this.

I am still with Craig cause I listened to what everyone said about the situation and I talked to my mother about it and in the end I would rather be happy with Craig than sad with out him. We still have great times and so I would rather move on from that and keep having those than loose what we have.

'Make the girls want hate and the guys wanna stare....... (nah)(D) (um)(R) (li) (um)(st) says (17:30):
Well i supose thats just how the cookie crumbles in the end , we're gonna disagree on this but i dont have a problem with you at all and yeah i miss you , but i'll happily wait years and years if thats how long your with him for and , if your with him forever well then thats fair enough
Syntheticdarkness- Whitby Goth here I come! The Amy she knits! says (17:31):
I just don't see how pausing a really good friendship solves this.
'Make the girls want hate and the guys wanna stare....... (nah)(D) (um)(R) (li) (um)(st) says (17:32):
it doesnt , im just not comftable with the desicion you've made
Syntheticdarkness- Whitby Goth here I come! The Amy she knits! says (17:32):
But can you explain to be how just not seeing me helps that or what ever cause I mean I am not going to track you down or anything i just want to understand
'Make the girls want hate and the guys wanna stare....... (nah)(D) (um)(R) (li) (um)(st) says (17:36):
It just feels weird , to be honest i just feel so strongly about the descion you've made im in disbelife you've done it and basicly i'd rather not be around that kind of atmosphere and furthermore i really wouldnt want to get into an arugment about your choice because its your choice at the end of the day
Syntheticdarkness- Whitby Goth here I come! The Amy she knits! says (17:37):
Okay its your descion but I would say that you don't know if there is going to be an atmosphere with me because we've not met since.
Syntheticdarkness- Whitby Goth here I come! The Amy she knits! says (17:41):
Darling I've got to go

XXX

Oh Synth, I'm so sorry.
That's a terrible thing to go through

Thanks love

I just don't know what to do...

Aww, that's just so awful dear. Things always work out somehow.

That's just awful and I'm sorry it happened. But, I'm a little confused. He was threatened with an axe, took the axe from the gal and now they don't feel comfortable around him? ....not the girl with the axe??

^That's what I was wondering... And where the heck did she get an axe in the first place....

It's not like he came after anyone... she did.

We had a bonfire, she was chopping wood, thus the axe.

Said 'To shut up or she'd knock his teeth out'

Craig's tried emailing her


From: Craig
To: Naomi
Subject: I don't understand...


I am aware you have a problem with me and Amy being together but I don't understand why.



If I have done something to you personally, then I’m sorry but taking it out on Amy is hardly fair?



If it’s about the whole axe business then this was self defence. I had a similar experience when someone came at me in a park with a machete, yelling shut up Craig and abuse at me. So I associated what was going on to this event and feared for my life. Kelly wasn't aware that this incident had taken place.



You have known me for a long time and if you believe I’m not safe to be around then fair enough, but don't take it out on Amy. You to have been good friends longer than I have known Amy, but I love Amy. if you knew how much I felt for her then you would understand why we can stand by each other through whatever may happen.



If you have a problem with me then please keep it between me and you, I would like to resolve it if possible. but don't take it out on Amy, she has done nothing wrong. By punishing Amy for what ever beef you have with me you are just pushing Amy further from you. She doesn't need this.



Naomi-

Its nice you care so much.

This is not punishment for amy.

She is my friend , if she's happy with you thats fine.

This is my choice , based on the fact i am not comftable with hers.

There is nothing that can be done to resolve this, appologies for any inconvinience.

Well at least he is trying to sort things out for you.
Hope things turn out hun.

Synth wrote:

We had a bonfire, she was chopping wood, thus the axe.

Said 'To shut up or she'd knock his teeth out'

Craig's tried emailing her


From: Craig
To: Naomi
Subject: I don't understand...


I am aware you have a problem with me and Amy being together but I don't understand why.



If I have done something to you personally, then I’m sorry but taking it out on Amy is hardly fair?



If it’s about the whole axe business then this was self defence. I had a similar experience when someone came at me in a park with a machete, yelling shut up Craig and abuse at me. So I associated what was going on to this event and feared for my life. Kelly wasn't aware that this incident had taken place.



You have known me for a long time and if you believe I’m not safe to be around then fair enough, but don't take it out on Amy. You to have been good friends longer than I have known Amy, but I love Amy. if you knew how much I felt for her then you would understand why we can stand by each other through whatever may happen.



If you have a problem with me then please keep it between me and you, I would like to resolve it if possible. but don't take it out on Amy, she has done nothing wrong. By punishing Amy for what ever beef you have with me you are just pushing Amy further from you. She doesn't need this.



Naomi-

Its nice you care so much.

This is not punishment for amy.

She is my friend , if she's happy with you thats fine.

This is my choice , based on the fact i am not comftable with hers.

There is nothing that can be done to resolve this, appologies for any inconvinience.

Hm...well, I don't know why she would be angry with your boyfriend. He did in self defense. If anybody threatened me with an axe, I'd do the same freaking thing...nobody's going to theaten me, she'd be down. It's odd that she would have something against your boy...as much as she's your friend, she's just being stubborn. I don't see how your boyfriend did any wrong.

It's sad to lose a friend over that, tres sorry.