Random Thoughts

I am feeling lonely & restless. Bleh

^^Agreed

nsanelilmunky wrote:

It looks like Nebraska finally remembered that it's supposed to be winter.

Oh it's winter? I thought I was in crack paradise.

How a duck can swim in freezing water is beyond me.

Had way too much fun today to do any homework.

^^I love when that happens

A thought popped into my head earlier: Do people still enjoy modesty? I got to thinking about wardrobes & even personalities & how I consider myself to be modest compared to some, but then not modest at all compared to some. It made me wonder if modesty is still something people seek/respect considering a lot of people anymore feel they have nothing to hold back.

WrappedinReflection wrote:

^^I love when that happens

A thought popped into my head earlier: Do people still enjoy modesty? I got to thinking about wardrobes & even personalities & how I consider myself to be modest compared to some, but then not modest at all compared to some. It made me wonder if modesty is still something people seek/respect considering a lot of people anymore feel they have nothing to hold back.

I'm pretty much forced to be modest lest my fat causes people to loose their lunch.

WrappedinReflection wrote:

^^I love when that happens

A thought popped into my head earlier: Do people still enjoy modesty? I got to thinking about wardrobes & even personalities & how I consider myself to be modest compared to some, but then not modest at all compared to some. It made me wonder if modesty is still something people seek/respect considering a lot of people anymore feel they have nothing to hold back.

I've talked about this with Gareth in the past. He's told me that he likes something left to the imagination when he sees a woman. Not much but something, you know? Imagination has a way of playing up the suspense anyway -- true of concealed parts of the body, or scary parts of good classic horror films, or even anticipating a meeting with someone admired from afar. A little mystery is a good thing.

As regards modesty in expression, I think it's good to be open and honest regarding perspectives even if your point of view is controversial. Always good to keep your audience in mind though: what's said among your friends won't necessarily be appropriate among a bf/gf's parents or a group of young kids.

nsanelilmunky wrote:

I'm still wondering what my mom was babbling on about. According to her, I'm going to have a culture shock, not because of the different language and lifestyles, but because of how differently women are treated in Europe. Basically, she seems to have the idea that women are subservient to men in Europe... The only thing that really comes to my mind when she talks like this is how Europe is so far ahead of the US not only in women's rights but civil liberties in general.

WTF was she smoking?

I'll guess a potent blend of poor geographic knowledge and irrational desire to keep you from surpassing her education-wise.

I'm sorry she's like that.

I feel like she should be more specific that "Europe" when making any claims.

Just learned what polyamory is.

WrappedinReflection wrote:

^^I love when that happens

A thought popped into my head earlier: Do people still enjoy modesty? I got to thinking about wardrobes & even personalities & how I consider myself to be modest compared to some, but then not modest at all compared to some. It made me wonder if modesty is still something people seek/respect considering a lot of people anymore feel they have nothing to hold back.

I am very self concious and I have always thought I was fat and ugly. I guess you could say I've always longed to wear a bikini, that cute little belly shirt, or know what it would be like to look pretty in the dress with the mesh over the stomach. In reality I know that no one wants to see my chub roll that looks like I'm a prego. I don't want to have people say more mean things to me to make me feel worse about myself. I guess I know my place.

‎"Soon I could make out horrid claws, mandibles, and grotesque, sucking appendages. Things had taken a turn for the better."

winter has arrived

^Unfortunate, but true.

1960's Addams Family, or the 1991 Addams Family? This question went through my brain last night as I tried to sleep. Is it possible to love each equal?

QueenbHorror wrote:

^Unfortunate, but true.

1960's Addams Family, or the 1991 Addams Family? This question went through my brain last night as I tried to sleep. Is it possible to love each equal?

Yes, my friend, you can.

It's friggin cold

QueenbHorror wrote:

1960's Addams Family, or the 1991 Addams Family? This question went through my brain last night as I tried to sleep. Is it possible to love each equal?

Ginger_Snaps wrote:

QueenbHorror wrote:

^Unfortunate, but true.

1960's Addams Family, or the 1991 Addams Family? This question went through my brain last night as I tried to sleep. Is it possible to love each equal?

Yes, my friend, you can.

Agreeing with Ginger here. They are different enough, and the movie is respectful of the style of the original series. Wish I had pics of Mom when she was little and dressed as Morticia one year for Halloween.

On Saturday night G and I went to a dinner party held by two of my ex-clients. The husband has friends at local area museums and corporate businesses, and is going to great lengths to introduce me to people who might be helpful to my career. I was a little nervous, but we had a great time; I'm hoping something good comes of this too, naturally. I'm also meeting with him and a friend of his in the HR field sometime this week for lunch.

Just want to get a job at the NCMA and stop this job-hunting bull! lol I'm thankful for his efforts; just antsy and wanting to get into a job that makes use of the experience I've already got.

I just realized something: I am a gay drag queen trapped inside the body of a woman. Well, I guess straight men are better than no men.

^^Tell me more about that.......

An ex from a long time ago emailed me today. I'm very cold. School should close. Now.

^Did they ever close tonight?

I wish my speakers would start working again. Maybe I should just stop waiting around and take it back to BestBuy, but they take forever for repairs... *grumblegrumble*