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deadcoldgothgirl supernova
Number of posts : 6332 Age : 34 Location : Roseville MI : : More Numbers : 7579753 Registration date : 2008-07-24
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| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Tue Nov 04, 2008 1:17 am | |
| I met this really amazing woman on this gothic forum thingie somewhere and we just started chatting innocently. I can be EXTREMELY random and, sadly, a bigger flirt than is my own good. But we talked... and ended up talking for hours... and then it was a daily routine... and those days we talk ALL NIGHT long... about everything and nothing in particular... And I started falling for her... And she thought I was crazy... But one day I started breaking through her shell and ended up stealing a tiny piece of her heart to where she became a wee bit curious... And that lead to bad things.... Erm... I stole her heart completely... and fairly easily... but only because she is almost 100% exactly like me... the chick version of me only hotter... and it's like... amazing beyond words.... Every time I talk to her, all the bad in my life melts away... and when she's gone... I feel incomplete.... And so one day I'm going to marry her and make her the happiest woman alive... because she makes me feel that way already... just by being herself. |
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MoonRaven Moderator
Number of posts : 9359 Age : 40 Location : Cherry Blossom tree :P : : Geisha : : More Numbers : 7675931 Registration date : 2008-07-21
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Tue Nov 04, 2008 1:24 am | |
| I just copied this from the "How did you meet your significant other' thread. He was stunned by my beauty when he came across my pic on MSN profiles At the time I was talking to someone else. When that someone else came to see me for a week I realized it wasn't meant to be. The day he left i called my bf for the first time and we talked everyday for 2 weeks. We finally met in person with my friends present. And the next day after a day alone at the library (without my friends) he asked me out. Apparently he knew there was something special about me. And he didn't want to wait any longer to ask me out cuz he didn't want me to get away (his words not mine) Smile That was on August 9 2004 He is Michael. To say what makes him so special is hard. There is way too many things. He is completely honest with me. Even if it would offend me. HE would rather things be out in the open. We never stay mad at each other for long. We work things out right away. And our alone time. When we snuggle to watch a movie or to nap. It's the way he makes me feel. Even after 4 years I still get all giddy. | |
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deadcoldgothgirl supernova
Number of posts : 6332 Age : 34 Location : Roseville MI : : More Numbers : 7579753 Registration date : 2008-07-24
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Tue Nov 04, 2008 1:41 am | |
| Wow, I can't wait to hear more stories after those two. Both of them were so sweet I got a little teary eyed. Well I'm going to tell my two sob stories then because if you remember from the other forum the last one wasn't going well.
There was Anthony. He was the punk that I thought was perfect because every time he was around me I felt like I was floating. He did drugs, I got pregnant and after I lost the baby, he cheated on me and left me, I realized I didn't really love him; I just didn't want to be alone and I was abused.
Then along came Jerry. He is an interesting one let me tell you. I met him over 5 years ago. He was in the air force and I was a young girl that thought he was the hottest thing out there cuz I kinda have a thing for a guy in uniform. We just used to be close friends and things changed after a year or two. It would always end up, we would talk about being together or what we each wanted in a wedding, I was madly in love and he would leave for another girl for 1-3 weeks. It never lasted long. He always says he gets tired of girls except for me. He left the AF and became a security gaurd in alaska. He is there for two months on a boat and then goes home to washington. Since I'm from Mi, I never get to see him. Before he came home I was joking around and asked him to marry me because he makes me feel whole and alive. He was serious and said yes. Now it is back to that on off again talking. So I'm not really sure if it is going to work. | |
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WrappedinReflection star member
Number of posts : 3078 Age : 36 Location : In the Dark Heart of the Night, Iowa : : More Numbers : 7555426 Registration date : 2008-08-09
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Tue Nov 04, 2008 1:55 am | |
| Awww, Moon. *sniffles* Your post made me get all happy/sad & made my heart swell. You guys are too sweet *grabs a tissue* *hugs coldgothgirl* You deserve better than that, my dear. Don't let anyone play with your emotions & heart like that. You're only denying yourself your true potential...trust me. There are true men out there who will treat you like a Goddess. | |
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lollirot senior member
Number of posts : 769 Age : 34 : : Horror Aficionado More Numbers : 7576126 Registration date : 2008-07-23
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Tue Nov 04, 2008 3:32 am | |
| ^ I agree with that! I've actually had tons of boys in my life. I've dated/hooked up/whatever with all different kinds of guys -- both in race and just overall style *ie. ghetoo, goths, preps, ectect* I've never had a relationship last over a year. Got my heart broken once and won't be going through that again. At the moment, I'm dating this dude named Jeremy. I met him at a hooka bar, introduced to each other by my cousin, and I thought he was the most obnoxious thing out there. Later on he added me on myspace, or some shizz like that, and we talked and one thing lead to another and we is a couple now. He is so incredibly sweet, funny, and straightforward. We hardly fight because I'm just a very mellow chick and don't give a crap about things; we make things work. Funny thing is, the day we met was the last day he was "supposedly" goign to hang around my neighborhood ...till he saw me. Lol. What can I say? | |
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Succubus supernova
Number of posts : 6201 Age : 49 Location : wrapped within the veil of darkness : : More Numbers : 7527362 Registration date : 2008-08-29
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Tue Nov 04, 2008 9:25 am | |
| AWWWWwwWW Ravenwind your story is so cute Moon it fantastic to have those feelings after 4 years Deadcoldgothgirl Lolli seems like you have a keeper there | |
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La Diva Carlotta supernova
Number of posts : 7864 Age : 44 Location : New York City : : More Numbers : 7581927 Registration date : 2008-07-23
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Tue Nov 04, 2008 1:35 pm | |
| I'm sorry, but my story isn't romantic. I met my husband freshman year of highschool. We dated briefly, but we never got serious. I didn't think we were compatible. After high school, we kinda went our seperate ways, although we kept in touch from time to time. After a series of failed relationships with others during college, we got together again around junior year of college. This time around he was so sweet and cute. Alot more grown up and mature too! I just knew he was the one. I really liked his friends too, and his family was great. He didn't care about my many flaws. A few years later, we decided to get married. The proposal went something like this: Him: Hey, wanna get married? Me: Ok. Yeah, we like keeping it simple. We had a very simple yet beautiful wedding. This past July we celebrated our 5th wedding anniversary. So far so good. | |
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Vampira132 Moderator
Number of posts : 4606 Age : 37 Location : London 1886 : : The Victorian Woman in Black : : More Numbers : 7670214 Registration date : 2008-07-21
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Tue Nov 04, 2008 2:31 pm | |
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MoonRaven Moderator
Number of posts : 9359 Age : 40 Location : Cherry Blossom tree :P : : Geisha : : More Numbers : 7675931 Registration date : 2008-07-21
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Tue Nov 04, 2008 4:28 pm | |
| Thanks everyone. Awww Vamp. Such a sweet story. Simple is great too Diva That's how my bf likes it. DCGG to you my dear. Super story Loli. | |
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deadcoldgothgirl supernova
Number of posts : 6332 Age : 34 Location : Roseville MI : : More Numbers : 7579753 Registration date : 2008-07-24
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Tue Nov 04, 2008 6:31 pm | |
| Well in case anyone wants to know the update, last night after I got off of here Jerry texted me. It was at 12:09 am and all it said was "love ya." So I replied in the same manner. Then he told me he was at a bar. I asked if he was having fun and all he said was "missing and wanting you." Then we were just talking through texts and such. At one point he said he was with his best friend beth. I was like ok. So we ended up talking about how he has disrespected a lot of my friends. At this point I think he was drunk cuz he asked me who and how. I told him and he said "I'm sorry. I love you." Then it went on and he thought I was being being to his friend so he said "Beth is my best friend. Respect. I will be nicer to your friends love bunny." Love bunny? Is he on crack? I went to bed and his friend called me on his phone. They were both drunk and he finally added me on myspave after 5 years. His friend wouldn't let him talk to me though. She said she was cooler then him and talked to me for and hour and 20 minutes. It was kinda odd cuz I really wanted to talk to him. | |
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Succubus supernova
Number of posts : 6201 Age : 49 Location : wrapped within the veil of darkness : : More Numbers : 7527362 Registration date : 2008-08-29
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Tue Nov 04, 2008 8:17 pm | |
| That was weird she would not let you talk to him..... | |
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*Morbid Doll* senior member
Number of posts : 876 Age : 36 Location : Cities in Dust : : More Numbers : 7572093 Registration date : 2008-07-25
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Tue Nov 04, 2008 11:09 pm | |
| oH MY!!!! How beautiful stories!!!!~~~~ Vampira, 7 years? CONGRATULATIONS!! Guys you deserve all the love you are getting!!!! Those were beautiful | |
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angelofthenight star member
Number of posts : 5158 Age : 37 Location : Central TX : : The Pumpkin Queen : : More Numbers : 7577687 Registration date : 2008-07-22
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Wed Nov 05, 2008 3:05 am | |
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Succubus supernova
Number of posts : 6201 Age : 49 Location : wrapped within the veil of darkness : : More Numbers : 7527362 Registration date : 2008-08-29
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Wed Nov 05, 2008 10:04 am | |
| He is a cutie Angel .. | |
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angelofthenight star member
Number of posts : 5158 Age : 37 Location : Central TX : : The Pumpkin Queen : : More Numbers : 7577687 Registration date : 2008-07-22
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Wed Nov 05, 2008 6:46 pm | |
| Thank you Just wait til he comes home for good from Iraq. He had long red and black hair and wore make up before he had to go Can't wait to get his regular self back. | |
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Succubus supernova
Number of posts : 6201 Age : 49 Location : wrapped within the veil of darkness : : More Numbers : 7527362 Registration date : 2008-08-29
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Wed Nov 05, 2008 7:37 pm | |
| Well I met my “special someone” by bumping into him on another forum. We started to pm each other on this forum. One night he needed a friend and I was there to listen and to give advice when I could. (not that I give great advice but most of the time it makes sense to see it from another person’s point of view). He asked me for my email addy and I having second thoughts of giving him my email addy gave it to him. (best second thought I ever made in my life) We just started emailing each other over the weeks and pming each other at the other forum. Now we are both married so in the beginning it was more on a “friend” relationship. We noticed we had a lot in common (books , movies, thoughts , views on life in general) The emailing , pming , and playing the games on the forum went on for weeks. Slowly I noticed this man was stealing my heart little by little. I felt bad that I was feeling this way for someone who was also married but seeing as we were both in a similar relationships with our spouses maybe we were just wanting to connect with someone who was different then who we were with. One night on his forum he said it those three little words “ I love you” He told me that if felt good saying it to me. Little did he know that I was already in love with him and did not want to scare him if I said it first. My life changed from then forward .Feb 14 will be forever in my mind as the day I found the one person who understands me completely. | |
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deadcoldgothgirl supernova
Number of posts : 6332 Age : 34 Location : Roseville MI : : More Numbers : 7579753 Registration date : 2008-07-24
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Thu Nov 06, 2008 4:03 am | |
| That is so sweet. I am really happy for you succubus. And people say you can't find real love online, it just goes to show you that everyone isn't all for themselves and you can find love anywhere. | |
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lollirot senior member
Number of posts : 769 Age : 34 : : Horror Aficionado More Numbers : 7576126 Registration date : 2008-07-23
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Thu Nov 06, 2008 12:45 pm | |
| ^ Agree. I'm actually really surprised because I've heard more about online/long-distance relationships on this board than in most places. Didn't think it was that common, but I am proven wrong. Really glad to see that some of you have worked it out | |
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Succubus supernova
Number of posts : 6201 Age : 49 Location : wrapped within the veil of darkness : : More Numbers : 7527362 Registration date : 2008-08-29
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Thu Nov 06, 2008 2:58 pm | |
| I think that in"our" case we are so much alike in every sense we know where the other one is coming from basically. We make it work. Its not easy but it works. The one thing I can say and had been mentioned by someone also here on this forum that communication and support is the key to a long distance/online relationship. Its been almost 9 months so I know it can work. | |
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angelofthenight star member
Number of posts : 5158 Age : 37 Location : Central TX : : The Pumpkin Queen : : More Numbers : 7577687 Registration date : 2008-07-22
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Thu Nov 06, 2008 3:08 pm | |
| Speaking of online, that's where I met my bf. One day I got this email that was titled, "What's Up Hot Stuff" from GothicMatch. I read it, he sounded pretty awesome, so I replied. One month later, here we are. Have a good feeling about him. | |
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Succubus supernova
Number of posts : 6201 Age : 49 Location : wrapped within the veil of darkness : : More Numbers : 7527362 Registration date : 2008-08-29
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Thu Nov 06, 2008 3:12 pm | |
| I wish you the best of luck Angel.... You both are adorable | |
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angelofthenight star member
Number of posts : 5158 Age : 37 Location : Central TX : : The Pumpkin Queen : : More Numbers : 7577687 Registration date : 2008-07-22
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Thu Nov 06, 2008 3:18 pm | |
| Aww, thank you Succubus. You and Ian are my role models as far as long distance relationships go. I hope that one day, we can be like you two. | |
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Succubus supernova
Number of posts : 6201 Age : 49 Location : wrapped within the veil of darkness : : More Numbers : 7527362 Registration date : 2008-08-29
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Thu Nov 06, 2008 3:39 pm | |
| thank you so much Angel You two can do it I have a feeling that it will work for both of you. | |
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MoonRaven Moderator
Number of posts : 9359 Age : 40 Location : Cherry Blossom tree :P : : Geisha : : More Numbers : 7675931 Registration date : 2008-07-21
| Subject: Re: Who is that special someone and why? Thu Nov 06, 2008 4:35 pm | |
| I met my honey online. Gotta love the internet!!! | |
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