My crush has a suicidal girlfriend. ARGH!

Only a lot.

Actully I didn't mean to come off as seeming psycho... I'm just really, really frustrated and feeling at the end of my rope here. x.x

Madelchai wrote:

Clearly the only thing to do is push her over the brink then.

I suggest leaving a poem on her car.

"Roses are red.
Violets are blue.
I'm taking your man.
There's nothing you can do."

Hate to admit it... but that is totally an Akasha move right there...

Arrrgh, my god. Greg's girlfriend posted in her LJ today that he dad's been drinking and abusing her and she wants to kill herself, sounds like soon. Ugh. I'm freaking out. I'm glad I saw my shrink today. I was thinking about telling him to sit down with her and call 911, and my counselor pretty much suggested the same thing, if she's unwilling to go to a hospital.

She needs to get OUT of that house. She's scared her dad's going to rape her. Yes, it's turning into that kind of abuse. >.< She needs help, not a boyfriend but MENTAL HELP. I hope Greg manages to convince her to get it... or call 911 if that doesn't work.

Yeah, serious DEEP %&*@.

My poor little brain.

Edit: Oh, and they don't want to call the cops because then her dad would be in jail and her mom refuses to get a frelling JOB. >.< So no income that way except the girl's meager earnings. But seriously... she'd HAVE to. The whole FAMILY needs help. *sigh*

^Ohh Squeaky hon...

I'm beginning to wonder... is really any guy worth that much anguish? TRUST me I understand the crazy things one will endure and do in the name of love... but really. That is a LOT. None of which he really has any right to expect you to put up with. Your first priority is to yourself and your own well being.... and that there is a whole lotta craziness. Please... just take care of yourself, okay?

Thanks Akash. It IS a lot. I'm just trying to relax right now. I need to chill but my head feels kinda like scrambled eggs. I'm down at my parents' house just trying my best to chill out.

Regardless of if we get together or not, Greg's still my friend and I care about him, so I want to see this end. If I'm freaking out this much, I've gotta wonder how in the world he copes. x.x

But... I've got my ice cream and headache meds. ^^; I'm gonna do what I can to keep myself sane. *nods*

GODDAMNIT. Now I learn that they HAVE had sex. He's so stupid. So FREAKING stupid.

Why is it that you and I keep having the same problem with men? And yes, he's very very stupid. Men need to learn to control their darn hormones. Men, who needs em? You can do so much better dear and one day you will.

I should just become a lesbian.

I've said that myself. Too bad I don't like women.

I know! I like the penis too much, unfortunately.

I am sorry I do not mean to laugh Squeaky but that post made me giggle. I am sorry you are having such a bad time with this guy. Some men are not worth the effort in my opinion and since they have had sex its going to be really hard for him to get rid of her. sorry its just my opinion.

Oh yeah... I agree. It's gonna be freaking tough. -_-

What a mess! Reading all this gave *me* anxiety. Something's gotta give somewhere...I hope soon.

I hope so too. ^^;

I talked to him today. I asked him if I did the wrong thing by telling him how I felt about him. He said no, becuase it gives him hope. God, I wish I had some hope, too. x.x

I'm just gonna keep this on a friends level and try my best to chill. And stop reading his girlfriend's livejournal because it freaks me out too much. -_-

My friend said I should try to talk them into a 3-way. LMAO. Umm, no thanks.

From an outsiders point of view, It would be best if you stay away from both of them, with the suicidal girlfriend and the boyfriend who is basically dragging you along on a string.
you're getting dragged into this mess and its starting to affect you in a negative way, ex: getting involved, reading the girls livejournal.

Yeah, I've been thinking that just giving up would be the healthiest thing to do. Heck, Greg worries about me a lot, too. Arrrrgh. I dunno.