Turn On's & Turn Off's

So, what does it for you?

And what really doesn't?

ODD question...this isn't a dating service...

^^^ haha
If you mean sexually... I'm not telling

I love my boyfriends arms
Not too fond when he grows a mustache
I like the beard/goatee thing he has going on though

This will take me a while to think up.

Well, for one, I am more likely to be attracted to a person if they are fit. A little bit of stubble or a devilish goatee is another; strong arms and hands also. I don't really care what their fashion tastes are, just as long as it is neat, but someone who is also darkly inclined is a plus.

My biggest turn offs are immaturity, slobishness, hyper-sexuality, and emotional weakness (I don't like being the man of the relationship).

My biggest turn on is hair. I love long dark haired guys. I'm a sucker for blue or green eyes. Tatoos and piercings are nice also. I like men who take charge and are very responsible.

Biggest turn offs have to be men who are liars, arrogant, immature and irresponsible.

Turn On's are androgynous men with deep voices.
Long black hair and charming eyes. I also like a man in a corset.
I also like the punk or heavy metal attitude, without being a complete a**.
Intelligence is a must, along with interesting conversation and open mind.
Piercings and tatoos are a big plus!
Turn off's are big muscles and a "macho" attitude, men in pink (sorry...I just forgive Aya from Phsyco Le Cemu).

Intelligence, wit and a bloody sense of humour do it for me. A nice, tight little backside doesn't go amiss either and I also have the "arms" thing going on! I dont NEED looking after, I'm more than capable of looking after myself but a pair of arms that can hold me and make me feel safe are a must! I also love tattoos and piercings and the hair has to be dark - it either has to be very short or very long but always dark

Turn offs - arrogance, ignorance and dirty fingernails

Turn ons:
Intelligence, up to date on current events, some familiarity with world geography, well spoken, round and firm butt, big gorgeous and expressive eyes!!!

Turn offs:
Heavy New York, Long Island or New Jersey accent, "ghetto" mentality, persecution complex, really skinny lips.

Turn-On's:

Intelligence and a sense of humor; plus a girl who's self-dependent yet freely admits being pampered is a wonderful thing.

I don't really have a certain race, religion or figure I look for, but I'm a sucker for dark hair & pale skin, and smaller girls, not skinny, simply smaller in general stature.

If you're going out, you better be dancing, a girl that does her thing at the club has my attention.

Dreadlocks and braids.

Platforms.

I'm also a big fan of someone who doesn't sweat the small stuff, my ex and then-best friend had it right in her self-awareness; "I'm casual." That seems like an impossible task for most though.



Turn-Off's:

Long walks on the beach.

If you're not catching my jokes, my references or social commentary, I'm probably losing interest fairly quickly. There are a ton of pretty faces, most don't have a brain two inches deep, so that way more important.

Liking me. Now wait, that sounds strange, but I've had some people kind of go kooky like I'm something special. I can joke around and act egotistical, but I make it a point to have my exaggerations apparent. However, if someone compliments me or thinks too much of me, it kind of makes me feel claustrophobic and pressured. This is probably my poor-self-esteem, but people making it a point to say nice things about me too much, sort of makes me dislike them. As if I hold it against people for diagreeing with my self-degradation.

Fake-Tans.

Wearing sandals with jeans (I think this is just a gripe with humans in general).

Spooky wrote:

Turn-Off's:

Fake-Tans.

Wearing sandals with jeans (I think this is just a gripe with humans in general).

Crap!

/Hides feet
//Covers fake tan

Some one who is good fun, out going enough to have fun with out problems and such but not too outgoing and makes things awkward or does silly things.

Humour strangly!

Must be alternative otherwise i find it hard to connect generaly.

Loverly generly really....

turn offs...

Arogance

promiscuity

stupid acts

turn ons-
intelligent
sarcastic
dry humor
tall!

turn offs-
wandering eye
lying
stupid/always talks about dumb things like drinking and sex

Fake tan is horrible! I'm delighted to say that this is the first year that I have hidden away from the sun and my skin actually feels a lot better for it! Nearly 40 and hardly any wrinkles! Yay!

Morwenna wrote:

turn ons-
intelligent
sarcastic
dry humor
tall!

turn offs-
wandering eye
lying
stupid/always talks about dumb things like drinking and sex

Sarcasm and dry humour are definitely a turn on!

^^ Sarcasm is a must! Very sexy.

turn-ons

long sleeves on my boys
fingers -- i love long, slender fingers. yum.
dreads/long hair/skin heads *the hair cut*
dark/cheesy humor
intelligence -- science&lit fan = yum
oh, yeeeah, guys who love horror. If they're as excited about it as I am....yup.


turn-offs

stupidity
emotional guys
bad breath
feminine men
guys who try to hard
clingy guys
guys who read manga or watch anime
ect ect

lollirot wrote:

turn-ons

long sleeves on my boys
fingers -- i love long, slender fingers. yum.
dreads/long hair/skin heads *the hair cut*
dark/cheesy humor
intelligence -- science&lit fan = yum
oh, yeeeah, guys who love horror. If they're as excited about it as I am....yup.


turn-offs

stupidity
emotional guys
bad breath
feminine men
guys who try to hard
clingy guys
guys who read manga or watch anime
ect ect

Yep, a lot of that goes the same with me! Also, if they look like they are straight out of military boot camp (camo and buzz cut included)... I'M FREAKIN' THERE. Gotta say though... I like 'em kinda clingy. Because I'm WAY clingy myself.

Turn on:

Women with soft, long hair (specially if is dark)

Pale is a great turn on, but not totally necesary

Either skinny women (but not too much) or tall and well-rounded

She must be intelligent, polite, well-read, artistic, have a great sense of humor and wit and an open mind, without minding doing new things.

Great turn on if she's goth, or at least alternative

Turn off:

Being rude, ignorant, annoying, overly intolerant, shallow and overly sensitive.

Being fat and short.

Too short.

If she smokes excesively.

Too skinny.

Short or unkept hair.

Akasha'sMistake wrote:

lollirot wrote:

turn-ons

long sleeves on my boys
fingers -- i love long, slender fingers. yum.
dreads/long hair/skin heads *the hair cut*
dark/cheesy humor
intelligence -- science&lit fan = yum
oh, yeeeah, guys who love horror. If they're as excited about it as I am....yup.


turn-offs

stupidity
emotional guys
bad breath
feminine men
guys who try to hard
clingy guys
guys who read manga or watch anime
ect ect

Yep, a lot of that goes the same with me! Also, if they look like they are straight out of military boot camp (camo and buzz cut included)... I'M FREAKIN' THERE. Gotta say though... I like 'em kinda clingy. Because I'm WAY clingy myself.

Yeeeeah, clingy is okay so long as they're not overly obsessive clingy....like calling you every half hour *or less* asking where you are and what you doing and stuff like that. ..

Maxmordon wrote:

Being fat and short.

I guess I don't have to worry about you hitting on me then.

Ginger_Snaps wrote:

Maxmordon wrote:

Being fat and short.

I guess I don't have to worry about you hitting on me then.

I was thinking the same thing
Lucky for me my bf likes me short and chubby

^^ Hehe, same here. I'm pretty much average but i'm probably the shortest person on the board.

Short is the way to go!!!
Well not like I have a choice in the matter

Amazons never do look right in platforms, so me thinks I'm just fine being short.