Turn On's & Turn Off's

We don't actually THINK we know it all, we KNOW we know it all

Of all the things that I have learnt so far in this life,the fact that women are always correct and it is pointless to argue with a lady is by far the most important and useful truth I have discovered.

Eyvind wrote:

Turn OFF--
Women who think they know it all

Well, you are up sh!t creek since that is pretty much every woman.

Turn-ons: Boys with long hair, and who wear skirts. Yeah, I like cross dressers! What can I say, they're hot!

Turn-offs: Men with macho, arrogant attitudes.

Thank evolution that modern man mated with neanderthols. Short, stout, strong, and a prominent brow ridge is incredibly sexy.

Ginger_Snaps wrote:

Eyvind wrote:

Turn OFF--
Women who think they know it all

Well, you are up sh!t creek since that is pretty much every woman.

Truth.

And a WIN for Ginger.

Akasha'sMistake wrote:

Ginger_Snaps wrote:

Eyvind wrote:

Turn OFF--
Women who think they know it all

Well, you are up sh!t creek since that is pretty much every woman.

Truth.

And a WIN for Ginger.

Admittion is the first step to recovery.

Turn-ons

-I love boys with a look of androgyny and a slender body with a a very slight hourglass curve to it
-With women, I prefer fuller-figured girls. I like girls who have at least a little bit of body fat
-Long flowing hair or dreads. I like the hair to fall at least to the shoulders
-Being well-dressed in clean, nicely-fitting, attractive clothing (no matter what their style is)
-A sugary sweet personality, yet someone who can be seductive and sexy when they want
-Honesty, loyalty, and openness
-Intelligence
-Open-mindedness
-Having a beautiful soul


Turn-offs

-People who see me only as a sex object
-Sexists, racists, homophobes, etc.
-Unintelligent people
-Overly whiney people
-People with bitchy personalities
-People who make fun of me in a 'joking' manner
-People who do not respect my boundaries (I don't care if it's something as minor as giving me a hug when I tell you not to, I've gone through to much to be willing to deal with ANY crossing of my boundaries)
-People who 'could not function on there own' if I were to leave them
-Being overly clingy
-Being overly lazy
-Having to much facial hair (a goatee on a guy can be nice... making out with a shag carpet isn't so nice...)
-Body hair!!!
-Slobishness
-Lack of personal hygiene

DarkDreamer wrote:

-People who 'could not function on there own' if I were to leave them
-Being overly clingy

Oh man, I know that. My ex puts emos to shame.

squeakychewtoy wrote:

Turn-ons: Boys with long hair, and who wear skirts. Yeah, I like cross dressers! What can I say, they're hot!

Turn-offs: Men with macho, arrogant attitudes.

You wise pumpkin!!! ~

Turn-Off: People who I'm not dating, wanting to have some PDA (public displays of affection) with me, as if they're some cat spraying their territory. I'm not yours, you're not mine, stop acting in such a manner people.

Spooky wrote:

Turn-Off: People who I'm not dating, wanting to have some PDA (public displays of affection) with me, as if they're some cat spraying their territory. I'm not yours, you're not mine, stop acting in such a manner people.

I hate PDA, period.

^^ So do I. It gets to be too much. I say get a room.

I guess I'm guilty of PDA's but my man is sooooooooooooooooooooooo irresistable that I cant help myself!

^^Ehh, I'm more than a little guilty here too. (But in my defense, I'm only like that with someone I have been dating seriously for a while~!)

Akasha'sMistake wrote:

^^Ehh, I'm more than a little guilty here too. (But in my defense, I'm only like that with someone I have been dating seriously for a while~!)

We're spontaneous, fabulous blood suckers! Yay!

helen damnation wrote:

I guess I'm guilty of PDA's but my man is sooooooooooooooooooooooo irresistable that I cant help myself!

I know how that is...with my man of course
Other than holding hands and a quick peck or hug now and then, we don't do much PDA.
Not like that couple in the library the other day.
THE FREAKING LIBRARY!!!!

^^ The hugging, kissing on the cheek and hand holding's fine. I hate the couples who have to look like they're eating each others faces. That and the gropping are the things that get to be too much for me.

^I admit it... I'm a face-eater. No groping though -- I DO have standards! That's just unsightly.

There is nothing wrong with a little groping, as long as its done in an undignified manner.

I's_Succubus wrote:

There is nothing wrong with a little groping, as long as its done in an undignified manner.

I totally agree!!!!

I don't mind a little fun outside, but I don't like someone using you as tree and piddling on you. It's like a hickie, stating that this one 'belongs to me', even if you're not dating and maybe just talking.

PDA is fine, but sometimes people get kinda heavy in places I wouldn't. I mean hell, I've done suspension and dom-exhibitions at clubs, but I'm not going to dry hump someone or french kiss for five minutes at a restaurant (and we've all looked over and seen this at least once).

When I see people heavily kissing in public I think there could be bombs going off and they would be entirely oblivious to them.

Vampira132 wrote:

helen damnation wrote:

I guess I'm guilty of PDA's but my man is sooooooooooooooooooooooo irresistable that I cant help myself!

Me and My Boo never realise that we do it. But we dont make it obvious and never try to make people uncomfortable.

I think that is a god rule to have. Holding hands and quick kisses are one thing. I would never want to see heavy making out. I dont want a show while I am walking through the park.