Turn On's & Turn Off's

Learn violin. It's a very romantic instrument.

angelofthenight wrote:

Learn violin. It's a very romantic instrument.

This is a true story.

(Its been a while since I've posted here.)

Let's see the turn-ons would have to be...

-Either super long dark hair or shorter hair that's long in the front, maybe kind of spiked up in the back.
-Gray/silver-ish eyes...or black eyes...
-Very pale skin,
-Any style as long as it kind of stands out and looks unique, preferably fitting clothing...
-Leather pants...(Had to add that in)
-Either taller than me or my height..
-Narrow facial structure with a defined jawline and cheekbones.
-Androgyny! (The kind of guys where I'll be going through photos and people will point and ask 'Is that a boy or a girl?') Though that's mostly facial feature-wise than anything else.
-Long legs (Marilyn Manson is a perfect example of this. Especially in those lovely suits he wears!)
-Long slender fingers

Basically the classic vampire image with a bit of quirkiness thrown in.
Personality-wise: Someone intelligent with something interesting/different to say, who can just sit and talk for a while without awkward silence, who isn't disturbed by my often crude/morbid sense of humor...

Turn offs:
-Extreme obeisity...
-short hair
-muscles(a little bit of muscle definition is ok, but body builder types just kind of creep me out, though Criss Angel would be an exception to this.)
-Facial hair (I prefer my guys clean shaven, though a goatee is ok, sometimes)
-Arrogance, stupidity, people who take themselves way too seriously,
-People who are devoutly religious...

endless dark wrote:

no... "playing" the bass would imply skill, what I do makes the Deaf cringe

(cringes and shudders) Whoa, that was NASTY! lol.

short hair used to be a thing with me but its eh now, like hair is hair......

Wish I thought like that. I say the longer the better thanks to that hair fetish of mine.

lol its ok we all have our different things

Most of the guy's i've dated have had short hair. Have no clue why i'm so obsessed with long hair.

3HoursOfConversation wrote:

short hair used to be a thing with me but its eh now, like hair is hair......

Pfft... for NOW you are like that. You are extremely fickle when it comes to hair... when I was blonde, you liked black hair... when I dyed it black to appease the admin, you suddenly were in love with blondes.

Tough noogies if you suddenly are obsessed with emo-ish hair again. I'mma never cuttin' mine~!

Emo-ish hair? (shudders). That definetly turns me off.

^My thinking exactly DG. He pushed me for AGES to hack my waist-length hair off... SO glad I didn't give in.

I like any hair sytles, long or short, just not the Emo look.

My favorite styles on a woman are the ones like Pauley Perrete's in NCIS or Betty Paige's.

Even with the V-shaped bangs.

^With my Bettie bangs and lips, I always get compared to, "That Abby girl!". I actually went in a Hallmark-sorta store looking for a job application once, and the VERY first thing the woman behind the counter said, before I even opened my mouth, was, "Oh my goood, you look like Abby!".



I suppose it is a compliment, but still... is that seriously the ONLY Goth Hallmark-sorta people can think of?

I guess so....

Either way, you still look gorgeous my dear

MoonRaven wrote:

Either way, you still look gorgeous my dear

Maybe I am just in an excessively mushy mood today.... but I am SO glad to be here right now.

I frelling LOVE YOU PEOPLE so MUCH!

(((done now)))

I agree with Moon Akasha you are just lovely !!!

Ohh you guys... so sweet to me. Thank you.

some one who is not flirty and knows when to say no, someone I can come home to at the end of the day and smile until I die just to see me

someone who knows how to record music

A guy with a morbid, twisted sense of humor for me.

I love it when a guy starts talking about Robot Monkeys.

You turn me on.Nothing else does it for me anymore.

I have a thing for asian girls. theres one girl i only see when i go to youth pride(think gay pride only geared towards 14-21 year olds) in boston the last couple of years. she the most adorable little butch asian girl ever, i just melted when i see her at pride.


oddly enough my gf is average hieght, pale, brown hair and eyes, and of european descent. then again i melt at the very thought of her.

Not that this is anything from any recent memory, but I just thought of it randomly tonight.

Going out with a girl for a few days, having a good time... and she asks you "you'll never leave me, right?"

The appropriate response is: "Uh... well... I'd been having a good time and wasn't really planning on going anywhere... but now that you've decided to take the high speed train into Crazy Central I'm gonna have to rethink that."